Topic "getting a pale gray almost white stained oak floor" a message from desperate for pale gray/white stained wood floor

[font=arial]Hello, I am desperate for some advice on getting a pale gray - almost white wood floor. I have put in new 4" red oak. We choose red oak because was told it would bleach better. My contractor has put down some samples for me-- The wood has been bleached once. The white stain does not look quite right , and seems pink . The gray stain looks a bit green-- with the hint of red /orange still showing through. I really want the soft almost white color that seems gray. Possibly what I think is a gray washed oak floor- is actually just white washed? Can anybody give me any advice for my contractor? should he bleach the wood twice? and besides the first sanding should they be sanding between bleach - stain- and the non yellowing poly. Thank you, I am grateful for anyones advice. [/font]
[font=arial]the links of the look I want should be on this post.[/font]